Married at First Sight - Couple 1

Married at First Sight - Couple 1

28 Episodes

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Episode 1: Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis02

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Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis02

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00:00Choosing who to marry is hard enough

00:02when you know them.

00:03Sheila is about to do it

00:05with a complete stranger.

00:08My name is Sheila Downs.

00:09I am a director of operations

00:10for a school district.

00:12I'm 30

00:12and I currently reside in Arlington Heights.

00:16I am ready to be married

00:18because

00:18I want to share my life with someone.

00:20I want to come home to somebody.

00:24Marriage is the acknowledgement

00:26that like before God,

00:28you're committing yourself to this person.

00:30And so from my faith standpoint,

00:33I believe that this is not only a covenant

00:34that I'm making with my husband,

00:36but it's a covenant that I'm making

00:37with God.

00:38Marrying a stranger

00:39is God's plan for me.

00:42Sheila can't meet him just yet,

00:43but we can.

00:45Meet the groom.

00:46My name is Nathan Duhon.

00:47I'm 25 years old.

00:48I'm a branch manager

00:49at a car rental agency.

00:51I want to be married at first sight because

00:53I want that union with someone

00:55for a lifetime.

00:56I want to build my empire

00:58with my queen.

00.89I want to be that leader

02.29and that provider in my household.

04.09I want to be the one where

05.59I pull up

06.59and my wife is home from work,

08.09the kids are home from school,

09.89the dog's there.

11.59'Cause me growing up,

12.89I just had my mom.

14.09She did a hell of a job.

15.09Don't get me wrong, but

16.59a woman can never take the place of a father.

18.59I want to have that family where

20.59people look at us and say,

22.59damn, they look happy.

27.59So,

28.29can Nate's mom trust a reality show

30.09with his future?

Episode 2: Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis03

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Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis03

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00:00Hi Nate.

00:01What you doing?

00:02I'm all right.

00:03She helps me make sound decisions.

00:06from an early age,

00:07keep me in the church

00:09has helped me to be the individual that I am today.

00:12So you remember a couple months ago when I told you

00:15I had met with a few experts to find me a match.

00:18What what does that mean?

00:19Finding a match.

00:20I'm getting married.

00:21to a stranger.

00:22What?

00:24That's that's bothered. That just bothered my stomach.

00:27God is the best matchmaker.

00:29Marriage is not a joke.

00:31I was not happy.

00:32Just the whole married at first sight.

00:34It's not what I envisioned for my son.

00:36I wanted it to be a decision that he had prayed about

00:39and I just couldn't see how something good could come out of this process.

00:44I understand it's not something that you're used to,

00:46but I just want to know if you'll be there.

00:49Can he really do this without her support?

Episode 3: Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis04

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Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis04

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00:00You know I'll be there.

00:03All right, ma.

00:04Appreciate that.

00:05My mom's making it quite evident

00:06that she doesn't approve of me marrying a stranger.

00:08You don't know this person.

00:09You're taking on these vows before God.

00:12But I'm hoping that she comes to the light.

00:14Parents come with expectations.

00:17Friends are usually a little more forgiving.

00:20Let's hope Sheila's are.

00:23Does anybody else think that this is ass backwards?

00:26I've known you for a long time.

00:28And I don't think that this is the best thing

00:32for you.

00:35This is crazy.

00:36This is absurd.

00:37This is very much out of her

00:39characteristic to do something like this.

00:41I don't need doubt.

00:42I just need you to say like, hey,

00:44like, I want you to be happy.

00:45That's what I need.

00:46I respect your decision.

00:48I'll try to be as positive as I can about it.

00:50To Sheila and the mystery man.

00:52To my husband.

00:55Wedding dress shopping.

00:57When you've never met the groom,

00:58it can feel a little like dressing up.

01.19Picking out a wedding dress today

02.89is really bizarre.

04.39Cuz I am super single.

05.59Yet I'm in a wedding boutique picking out a dress.

08.49What kind of dress are you looking for?

10.69Obviously, like this is new.

12.39So I'm still figuring it out.

14.69I have wanted to be married for as long as I can remember.

17.39You get older,

18.49you go away to college,

19.49and then you start your family.

20.59You get married.

21.49So that was like the natural progression.

23.39Um, a little behind schedule.

25.39I'll be back.

25.89Okay.

26.29In a wedding dress.

27.29I know.

Episode 4: Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis05

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Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis05

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00:01Ooh!

00:02Oh, that's so pretty.

00:04I love the drama, honey.

00:05Oh, I like this one.

00:06Yes.

00:06This one makes me happy.

00:08Yeah, it's kind of like a mullet,

00:09like business on top,

00:10party in the back, like party at the bottom.

00:12Oh my god, the back is stunning.

00:14I love it.

00:15So we're going to try to see if this one can go to like a

00:17That was a 10.

00:18Definitely.

00:18That's actually really pretty.

00:19That was a 10, friend.

00:21This dress makes me feel sexy

00:23and makes me feel like a bride.

00:25Aw.

00:26Oh yeah, that's pretty.

00:27Definitely feels more real

00:28now that I found a dress.

00:30Yes to the dress.

00:32Yay!

00:35We all celebrating tonight.

00:36Man getting married right here.

00:38Man, that's how it is.

00:39Yes.

00:40We finna we finna turn up, man.

00:42Let's pray real quick, man.

00:43I mean, God's gonna come first in the marriage.

00:45I feel like every relationship needs

00:47God at the forefront of it.

00:48I don't know what I'm gonna do tomorrow, dude.

00:50I'm not going to see shorty

00:51until she in my face.

00:53She probably thinking, boy, I hope he's fine.

00:55Yeah, Nate,

00:56little chocolate Snickers looking self gonna come around the corner.

00:59Boy, don't you ever refer to me as a chocolate Snickers.

01:02God's for me to go ahead and build that empire with my queen.

01:04Tonight, I am going to bed

01:06believing in love more than ever.

01:08I'll pray for him.

01:09I'll go to sleep.

01:10And I'll wake up tomorrow

01:11knowing that I'm

01:13one step closer to him.

01:15It's an exciting night for Sheila and Nate,

01:18and with big excitement

01:19comes the risk of disappointment.

Episode 5: Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis06

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00.09Sheila and Nate have trusted the process,

02.29hoping to find true love.

04.79Today comes the real leap of faith,

07.49marrying a stranger.

09.49I am eerily calm.

10.89And so I don't think that that's like normal.

12.59I'm sure he's probably freaking out.

15.59I'm ready now.

17.59That's like a basketball game.

18.69You be nervous a little bit.

20.39That's it.

20.89You go ahead, you get it out your system.

23.29Let's go.

24.39It's go time.

26.29My mother, she has my mind completely filled with doubt.

29.49And she usually helps me make sound decisions.

32.99But she doesn't approve of me marrying a stranger.

35.39She's coming to the wedding.

36.59I'm nervous.

37.19I don't know how she's going to behave.

39.89Damn, it's crazy.

40.69It's time now.

41.59Ain't no going back now.

42.99This is forever.

44.19I know, right.

44.69I'm really about to marry somebody.

46.59My son.

47.19You look amazing.

48.59I love my son.

49.89But I was not happy.

52.39I believe that marriage is something

54.09that you should think about.

55.09It's a lifelong commitment.

56.89I see.

58.89I don't know if he's ready.

00.89Are you ready, Nate?

Episode 6: Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis07

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Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis07

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00:00First impressions matter

00:01in any relationship.

00:03But when the person you're meeting

00:05is a complete stranger you're about to marry,

00:07that first look means everything.

00:10If you ever going to change your mind,

00:13this is a time to do it.

00:15It's very real.

00:16It's very real now.

00:18Hey.

00:19Hey.

00:19Hey, the time has come.

00:21It's hard to put everything into words.

00:23I feel like I'm about to explode right now.

00:25I'm ready.

00:28My heart is bumping fast.

00:30Hey, how you doing?

00:31That's natural when it's something

00:33that you're anticipating.

00:34It's something that you've waited for,

00:36wonder what the outcome would be.

00:38It's crazy.

00:40I approve.

00:43Nate.

00:44My goodness, my goodness.

00:46My goodness, Nate.

00:47I don't I can't do this.

00:49Be cool.

00:50No, I don't think so.

00:52I just couldn't even imagine.

00:54Father, in Jesus name, we thank you.

00:55I am nervous.

00:57I am praying and

00:59I know that God didn't bring us

00.80this far to leave us now.

02.50In Jesus name.

03.20In Jesus name.

04.00Amen.

05.00Excited to see my wife walk down that aisle.

07.20'Cause I want that union with someone

08.80for a lifetime.

10.50This is my queen.

13.60I'm freaking out.

14.70I'm just ready to meet my husband.

16.90Will it be love at first sight?

Episode 7: Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis08

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Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis08

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00:00This is the most important

00:01moment of my life and

00:04I'm just ready to meet

00:05my husband.

00:08Moment's so unreal

00:10that I feel like if I blink,

00:11she's going to be gone.

00:14He has really honest eyes

00:15and

00:16I like his lips.

00:17And I think he's cute.

00:19She is incredible.

00:22You have to come get my daughter.

00:27Hi.

00:27Hi.

00:28I'm Nate.

00:28I'm Sheila.

00:28Nice to meet you.

00:29You too.

00:30Hi.

00:37Sheila Downs,

00:39meet for the very first time

00:40Nathan Duhan.

00:44Hi.

00:44How you doing?

00:46Good.

00:48Sheila's family would like you to know

00:50that Sheila is dynamic,

00:52energetic,

00:53funny and spontaneous.

00:55I'm really funny.

00:58She has an odd taste in country music.

01:00So, we hope you are a big fan.

01:03Sheila,

01:04Nathan's family would like you to know

01:06you will never have to worry about being bored

01:08or unappreciated by Nate.

01:11He's often going to be the funny guy

01:13because he has a great sense of humor.

01:17High five.

01:21So, he will always make sure

01:23that you laugh and smile.

01:25You have found a diamond in the rough.

01:27Aw.

01:29Nathan,

01:30will you have Sheila to be your lawful wedded wife,

01:33in sickness and in health,

01:34so long as you both shall live?

Episode 8: Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis09

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00:00Will you have Sheila to be your

00:02lawful wedded wife?

00:05I do.

00:07And Sheila,

00:09will you have Nathan to be your

00:10lawful wedded husband?

00:12In sickness and in health,

00:14so long as you both shall live?

00:17I do.

00:19You have written your own vows.

00:20Nathan?

00:21I've had these vows that

00:22I was prepared to read to you.

00:25But once I saw you walk through those doors,

00:27these vows that I

00:29had written down,

00:31they were

00:32no longer sufficient

00:34to a woman so

00:36so gorgeous.

00:38I, Nathan, vow to love you

00:40more than anyone's ever loved.

00:43It's going to be a journey.

Episode 9: Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis10

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00:00Nathan.

00:01You don't know it,

00:02but you are the answer

00:03to a distant prayer.

00:05And with God at the center of our union,

00:06I promise to simply allow

00:08our marriage to grow.

00:09And I am ready to begin

00:10our life together.

00:12Say that.

00:16Nathan,

00:17repeat after me.

00:19With this ring.

00:20With this ring.

00:21I wed you, Sheila.

00:22I wed you, Sheila.

00:24And Sheila,

00:25with this ring,

00:26With this ring,

00:27I wed you, Nathan.

00:28I wed you, Nathan.

00:30Nathan,

00:31you may kiss your bride.

00:33Come here, girl.

Episode 10: Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis11

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04.85Hey, hey, hey, hey.

05.65You went for seconds.

07.30Gentlemen,

08.10for the first time,

09.50Mr. and Mrs. Duke.

23.34Bam!

24.34I'm married.

25.94I have a husband.

27.84And his name is Nathan.

29.54Jovan, I think.

32.24However that.

34.45This is crazy.

37.15But a good crazy.

38.35Yeah, I agree.

39.35I am completely relieved.

41.55She is

42.55everything that I could have imagined

44.75and more.

46.25You were shaking a little bit up there.

47.45Me?

47.75Yeah.

48.35Well, yeah.

49.25I don't like to cry

50.35in front of like a room full of people.

52.25I got to tell you in there.

53.25Yeah.

54.25Because I meant it.

55.35Yeah, I believe that.

56.55His vows were like amazing.

58.45Cuz he was speaking from the heart

59.85and I loved it.

01.25Um, again,

01.85I've said throughout this entire process,

04.05if I can just find somebody who is equally committed,

07.35his commitment was just really shining through

09.45and it was a really, really nice moment.

11.25So how old are you?

12.3525.

14.25Yeah, what about yourself?

15.4530.

16.55Okay.

Episode 11: Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis12

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00:01He's younger than me.

00:02Um, I'm a little surprised

00:03only because life experience

00:04is play a huge role in who you are.

00:07and I'm praying

00:08and hoping that this won't become an issue.

00:10I mean,

00:11for the most part I feel like

00:12I'm, you know, established.

00:13So,

00:14wise beyond my years.

00:16This is crazy.

00:17Yeah.

00:18She's amazing.

00:19She has not only the beauty,

00:21but also the personality.

00:23I can

00:26Did she look happy when she seen him though?

00:27Yes.

00:27Absolutely.

00:28Absolutely.

00:29I love it.

00:30He cried.

00:36When Nate looks at me,

00:37it's intense

00:38and um contemplative

00:39and sincere.

00:40And for him to look at me so

00:43passionately,

00:44it's really, really nice.

00:51I'm not only physically attracted to Sheila.

00:54She has an amazing personality.

00:57Definitely want to consummate our marriage.

00:58So,

00:59we're going to go back to the honeymoon suite

00.71and then we'll go from there.

04.71I think there's a lot of sexual energy

06.47um coming from Nate.

Episode 12: Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis13

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00:00Tonight,

00:01Sheila and Nate are alone

00:03as husband and wife.

00:04The attraction is there,

00:06but will they go all the way?

00:09I should like take off my shoes.

00:11It's like such a production.

00:14You're about to do the same thing, so.

00:17We are progressing fast.

00:18We we do mesh well.

00:20The chemistry is there.

00:21So,

00:22being able to open up

00:23towards one another,

00:24uh, is quite easy.

00:26You know that.

00:27I feel like once we do

00:29cross that threshold

00:30and have sex,

00:31I feel like it's going to be

00:33very passionate

00:35and very intimate.

Episode 13: Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis14

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00:01Good morning, newlyweds.

00:03So, how was your first night?

00:06Waking up next to my husband

00:07is really nice.

00:09He's super affectionate.

00:10And with each minute,

00:11I like him a little bit more.

00:13He's definitely growing on me quickly.

00:15Girl, you fine as hell.

00:17Thanks.

00:18Oh, wee.

00:19Thanks, husband.

00:21My husband and I did not have sex

00:22on our wedding night

00:23because I really wanted to get a chance

00:25to know him

00:26and I didn't want to cloud that with sex.

00:29I don't know, but yesterday was a good day.

00:31Wedding, check.

00:32First night together,

00:33check.

00:35Next up,

00:36the honeymoon.

00:37Enjoy the warmth of the sun,

00:38the sand in your toes,

00:39and the breeze of the ocean

00:40as you venture into your romantic honeymoon

00:43on the island of

00:44Hey.

00:45May love bloom between

00:46the two of you.

00:47Where?

00:49Don't keep me waiting.

Episode 14: Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis15

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00:05Ooh, St. Croix.

00:07Not a bad place to get to know your new husband.

00:09Welcome to the Buccaneer.

00:11Thank you.

00:12Thank you, thank you, thank you.

00:13So, I've been a married man

00:14for two days now.

00:16and I feel liberated.

00:17I'm now free of doubt, free of worry.

00:19I can't believe I'm married.

00:20Can I have your names?

00:22Uh, Nathan Duhon.

00:24Okay.

00:25And Sheila

00:27Duhon.

00:28Welcome Mr. and Mrs. Duhon.

00:31So far from talking to Nathan

00:33and just spending time with him,

00:34it's not forced.

00:35It's easy.

00:35It's like hanging out with somebody

00:37I've known forever.

00:37So,

00:38I'm enjoying the fact that I have a husband.

00:39It's a good honeymoon.

00:40Yeah.

00:42I'm excited.

00:43It's beautiful.

00:43It's hot.

00:44The rum is amazing.

00:46I can't ask for a better time.

00:47I'm looking forward to really getting to know my wife

00:49on my honeymoon, Sheila.

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00:00Miss Sheila,

00:01aka

00:03Mrs. Duha.

00:04aka, my new wife.

00:07aka.

00:10I think I think we've covered them.

00:11I got a couple more for you.

00:13I love what I see.

00:15I love the energy that I feel.

00:16This is the start of something very beautiful.

00:18I agree.

00:19Beautiful woman.

00:20Thank you.

00:21I feel like when I have sex with my wife,

00:23it's going to be very passionate

00:25and very intimate.

00:27Do it.

00:28Are you looking at how pretty the water is?

00:30I'm looking at how pretty my wife is.

00:32Oh, that was nice.

00:33So it's been a while since I've had sex.

00:35So,

00:36yeah, it's about that time.

00:39Tonight I want to like be low key.

00:41Like super chill.

00:42You know?

00:43I'm hoping that tonight's the night.

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00:01Good morning.

00:02So, last night was a good time.

00:04She snores.

00:05At times.

00:06The lies you tell.

00:09I'm glad these lies are documented.

00:13My family said otherwise before, right?

00:14Yeah.

00:15Um, I don't snore.

00:17Damn, you're gorgeous.

00:18Thanks.

00:20Even in the morning.

00:21Don't pan up to my hair.

00:23Like from here to here.

00:26All right, but all

00:27above my eyes.

00:29So I'm thinking about today.

00:30There's a lot that we can do on this resort.

00:33We're right by the water.

00:34The most beautiful view.

00:35Yeah.

00:36It's gorgeous.

00:37Yeah.

00:41All right, you want to get ready?

00:43I'm sure you're hungry.

00:44It felt right and natural.

00:46Like, I've never had an orgasm.

00:47And that didn't change last night.

00:48But I'm sure it'll be amazing

00:50when it happens.

00:52He hasn't eaten in the last six minutes.

00:54So it's about that time.

00:56I think you get to know me pretty well.

00:59Things are going so well that

01.26it's almost unbelievable.

02.86After such an eventful night,

04.66the chemistry is clear.

06.56But will physical attraction be enough to build something deeper?

10.86I'm not really afraid because

12.26I don't think that I'm the person going like 200 miles an hour.

15.57Like I want to be taking it slow and enjoying the scenery.

24.87This is insane.

25.87I wasn't expecting us

27.37to like just go from zero to a million.

30.07can't hold on hard enough to feel safe.

32.87Is Nate noticing that Sheila isn't really enjoying herself?

36.57I'm on a jet ski,

37.57going 90 miles an hour.

39.07She's hanging on for dear life.

44.58just trying any and everything to get her out of her shell

48.18and have fun.

Episode 17: Marriage_At_First_Sight_S05_Sheila&Nate_epis18

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00:00And then we fall in.

00:02It is crazy

00:03because I wasn't expecting it

00:04and I'm starting to get pissed off.

00:06I just want to take it slow.

00:08Nate has no like panic button.

00:11That's enough of this.

00:12I know I got married at first sight,

00:14but getting married

00:15and consummating my marriage,

00:16this is a lot.

00:18You mad about?

00:19That was awful.

00:20He's just so high energy.

00:22It's just too much.

00:23That was wild.

00:25I thought that was a joke.

00:26I thought we were going to

00:28Damn, trip was going so well.

00:30Whatever.

00:33Evening is setting in,

00:34but the tension from earlier

00:36is still hanging in the air.

00:38Will Sheila and Nate try to work through it?

00:41I'm just like overwhelmed.

00:43Between everything

00:44that we've been going through in the last week

00:46and the fact that we consummated our marriage,

00:48it's starting to feel real now.

00:50And that's a little scary.

00:53So you enjoyed today?

00:56Somewhat.

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00:01Wake up right at the crack of dawn.

04.29We can do a lot of things.

05.69Yeah.

06.59Maybe that's a good idea.

08.13Just start early.

09.83I don't want you to be upset

11.63when I win, though.

12.73Yeah, okay.

13.63I was so serious.

15.03It's like you wanted to battle me.

16.54It wasn't like I was trying to battle you.

17.74Okay.

18.44But we were both in a learning process.

20.34That's what it's about.

21.54The experience.

22.54No.

23.44That's a loser's thing.

24.24No, not a loser's thing.

25.24I learned so much.

26.55Nate really helps me

28.25come out of my shell.

29.45It's really hard

30.45even if you're in a bad mood

31.75or just be in a funk

32.95when he is loving.

34.35is sincerely trying to make me happy.

37.26Like I appreciate you

39.86attempting to

42.16deal with me

44.46and my mood because

46.67I feel better.

48.77And I feel better because of you.

50.57Really?

51.27Yeah.

51.77Oh, yeah.

52.47Say that.

53.07You make me feel myself.

54.47I'm learning that she's a woman who

57.28You do something

00.38to me, baby.

03.28I

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00:01Yesterday's rocky start ended well,

00:03but can they keep things on track today?

00:06Yeah.

00:07Let's go to 15.

00:08Okay.

00:08So far my honeymoon

00:09is going really, really well.

00:11It's not forced.

00:12It's easy.

00:12It's like hanging out with somebody

00:13I've known forever.

00:14So now I get to relax

00:16and play ping pong with my husband.

00:18Zero zero.

00:18Zero zero.

00:211-0.

00:252-0.

00:26I'm dying to go ahead

00:27and compete against my wife.

00:302-2.

00:31It's the wind, man.

00:32Yeah, okay.

00:35Seven.

00:36Clearly the wind.

00:37Yeah, clearly.

00:38It only blows up when you hit it.

00:40Isn't that funny how that works?

00:45Nate is very aggressive

00:46and he is taking this

00:48a lot more serious than I.

00:51So I'm quickly getting annoyed.

00:53Don't play around with me.

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00:00Good game.

00:01That's 1-1, huh?

00:03Not really.

00:05I was just over it.

00:06His attitude and energy

00:08just made me not want to play.

00:09I don't like you in competitive things.

00:12No?

00:13No.

00:14I wasn't really interested in playing.

00:16'Cause I'm a competitor?

00:17No, 'cause you're a sore loser.

00:21Ay ay ay.

00:23Ay ay ay.

00:25What's so funny?

00:26You're funny.

00:27If you have something to say, say it.

00:29I think you can say it.

00:31Okay.

00:31Then don't say anything.

00:33Well, don't do that again.

00:35'Cause that's like borderline like disrespectful.

00:36Please don't do that again.

00:37I'm being respectful. I said please.

00:40I'm pretty consistent

00:41with the way that I handle things.

00:42I do like to talk things out.

00:44And Sheila is more

00:46to herself and has to think things through.

00:51Nate absolutely does not understand

00:53where I am.

00:54I just don't have positive things to say.

00:56If you don't have anything positive to say,

00:58like don't say anything at all.

01:01Come here.

01:02You don't want to.

01:03Huh?

01:03You don't want to.

01:08So yeah, your feelings are all mad.

01:10No, I told you I'm annoyed.

01:13My wife doesn't want to hold my hand

01:14and it feels like a sign of rejection.

01:17And that's something

01:18that I'm not too fond of.

01:20This is some disrespect.

01:22Don't reject your husband.

01:25I think,

01:26um, I don't have it in me

01:28to stay with her.

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00:05I'm about to call Pastor Cal

00:06because after this big fight,

00:09my husband just told me off camera

00:10that he doesn't want to be married anymore.

00:12Right after that, he apologized,

00:14but words are damaging.

00:15And so I'm done.

00:18Do you want this marriage to work?

00:23I'm still committed to my marriage.

00:25And the fact that his commitment level

00:27doesn't go very far

00:29is a problem for me.

00:34You've got to be flexible.

00:35You can't just draw the line and say,

00:37no, this is done.

00:38Not going to work.

00:40He could have said anything else to me.

00:42Anything else in the world

00:43and I would have forgave him.

00:45That for me is unforgivable.

00:46Nothing is unforgivable.

00:49He could have said anything.

00:56And I would have stood by him through anything.

01:00I have faith in him

01:01that he's going to do his due diligence

01:03in making it right.

01:05But I want you to give him an opportunity

01:06to do that.

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00:00Marriage is hard enough

00:01when you know the person.

00:03Sheila and Nate are learning

00:05each other's limits as they go,

00:06and it's not easy.

00:08From what you know so far,

00:11do you think I'm like real emotional?

00:13No.

00:16That was quick.

00:17If I could go back,

00:19I would

00:21you know, just stay strong

00:22and not allow myself to

00:26say hurtful words.

00:27I feel sick right now.

00:29I want to be married to Sheila

00:31more than anything.

00:32Congratulations on getting married.

00:33Thank you.

00:34Awesome.

00:37I am so profoundly hurt by Nathan.

00:39Nate didn't sign up for better or for worse.

00:41Nate signed up for better.

00:43And right now, I'm not in a better place.

00:46I'm trying to be cognizant

00:48of Pastor Cal's advice

00:50and enjoy the last day of my honeymoon.

00:52I am trying to will myself

00:54to be in that moment.

03.44I don't necessarily feel close to my wife

05.14on horseback riding.

06.74Sheila looks very frustrated.

08.84She was already mad going into it.

11.44I'm hoping that we can get back on track.

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00:03Come on, Gentry.

00:06He doesn't want to.

00:09He not listening to you either?

00:11No.

00:12I was hoping that this would bring

00:13Shana and I a little bit closer together,

00:15but

00:15right now, it's going in the opposite direction.

00:17It doesn't really balance out the best for me.

00:20I think the lady and I and the horses are good.

00:23Horseback riding is a complete and utter failure.

00:26Nate and I seem to be stubborn people,

00:29but I think these horses have us beat.

00:31They are over this

00:33and so am I.

00:36It's the last night of the honeymoon,

00:38and it seems it may also be their last chance

00:40to save the marriage.

00:44So, I'm trying to

00:45force her to come back up

00:48and be in paradise with me

00:49to enjoy her time.

00:52Well, I would like to offer you an apology

00:55for about earlier.

00:58I do apologize for that.

00:59It wasn't the best move on my behalf.

02.09I've made better before.

05.19Do you want to be married?

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00:01want to be married the right way.

00:03And when I felt disrespected by by you today,

00:06it kind of made me feel

00:08like I need to pull back.

00:09I don't know, Nathan.

00:11I am...

00:17Marriage means everything to me.

00:19I think marriage is the epicenter of the family.

00:22I think marriage is the foundation

00:23that you build upon.

00:25and a life of adventure comes from marriage.

00:28And so right now,

00:29this is not the marriage that I want.

00:32I've spent most of my 20s

00:33trying to convince men

00:35that they wanted this

00:36and that

00:45that I was worth it.

00:49And I'm at a point where like,

00:54I will not convince my husband

00:56that I'm worth it.

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00:00I get it.

00:02I've not been

00:07easy with this honeymoon.

01:14I'm trying.

01:16And when you wake up

01:18and you are just fighting

01:20to feel like yourself.

01:22And that's what I find every morning.

01:25Like I am just fighting

01:26to just feel normal.

01:28Like I'm trying to express those things to you.

01:31You don't care.

01:32Cuz all you want to do is have fun.

01:35And like I can't even focus on the fun

01:37cuz I just want to like

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00:00like I was disrespected.

00:01I told she like I didn't want to be married.

00:04I think I may have hit on some triggers

00:06to where she feels like I'm not ready for marriage,

00:07but that's not the case.

00:09I'm committed to the vows that I took.

00:11I apologize.

00:14When you say see, what does that mean?

00:16Listening is not just

00:18like you hear the words that are coming out of my mouth.

00:20Like, I need you to feel what I'm saying

00:22and you don't.

00:24At this point it's like, what do I do now from here?

00:27That will work for you.

00:29This is unfamiliar territory for you.

00:31You know it's unfamiliar territory for me then.

00:33Yeah.

00:34And

00:35you know, I feel like the Holy Spirit really just ministered to me

00:38in that aspect

00:39and telling me like,

00:40we need to make sure that we pray

00:43together.

00:45every night.

00:48So you want to pray?

00:49We can definitely pray.

00:51Hit it.

00:51Hit it.

00:52Hit it.

00:54Father God, I'm praying for Sheila, Lord Jesus,

00:56that you direct my steps in the way that I should

00:59be a husband for this woman, Lord Jesus,

01:01that being her husband that she feels comforted.

01:04The praying together

01:05and fighting our way back to a like a happy place.

01:09I'm learning that

01:10Nate is extremely resilient.

01:12Um, he isn't giving up either.

01:15Help us, Lord,

01:16and guide us.

01:18Amen.

01:18Amen.

01:21For me, this is definitely like a testament to faith.

01:24And I did this experiment

01:26because I wanted to be a wife.

01:29And today I can say that I want to be your wife.

01:32That's all I need to hear.

01:35That's just the most.

01:37So much. Can you wipe it off first?

01:39Goodness.

01:40Oh, you did.

01:46Two for you, just like on the wedding day.

01:48Let me get three.

01:49Okay.

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00:02I'm excited to start

00:03the process of moving in together.

00:05Really?

00:06Are you nervous?

00:07Nah.

00:08Nate and I are really making good progress.

00:12Our common core values are very similar,

00:15and we share faith,

00:16and it's definitely something that is fundamental in our relationship.

00:19But then moving in with someone that you barely know,

00:22that definitely presents a lot of unique challenges.

00:25And so, I feel like I'm ready for them.

00:28The reason that I wanted to get married

00:30is the desire for that partnership.

00:32I think to know that

00:33you're not in this world alone,

00:35that you matter to somebody.

00:37I wanted that and I'm so

00:38beyond thankful that I found that.

00:41What are you doing?

00:42Just making sure I ain't leave nothing.

00:44Underneath the sheet?

00:46Moving in with my new wife,

00:47I imagine it's going to be a lot of

00:48figuring out to do.

00:49as far as, you know, how we like to just

00:51operate on a day-to-day basis.

00:53What I really want

00:54as far as getting married

00:55and being a husband is,

00:57I want to be that leader

00:58and that provider in my household.

01:00So I want to be able to

01:02open up with a woman

01:04and trust that woman

01:05because I'm ready to

01:07give all this love that I have

01:09built up inside of me

01:11to my mate.

01:12Trouble in paradise can be easy to brush off,

01:15but with the bags packed

01:17and real life just around the corner,

01:20can Sheila and Nate's relationship

01:21survive outside the honeymoon bubble?

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